In Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, it
is important to uncover the several ways in which this tragedy comes
about.
In the Prologue we are informed that Romeo and
Juliet are star-crossed lovers. Fate is against them, and they are destined to die. With
this in mind, other characters may be used to drive the plot or lead characters to
certain actions, as was Shakespeare's wish. He tells us the ending—and that Romeo and
Juliet are not to blame.
Many look to
put the responsibility for the tragedy on Friar Lawrence. However, in some ways, this is
like suing the href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parable_of_the_Good_Samaritan">Good
Samaritan. Romeo is ready to kill himself, Juliet is ready to kill herself
rather than marry Paris, and the Friar wants to help these two, hoping that the feuding
parents might change through their children's love. Ironically, he is not that far off
the mark: Romeo and Juliet's relationship does change things
between the Montagues and Capulets; unfortunately, it is their death that makes the
difference. It's important to remember that these young people make up their minds to
live together or not at all. Though young, they go to the Friar, each one, with eyes
open.
Difficulty does arise with the Friar, first with the
secret marriage. Next is the arrangement he makes with Juliet to bring on a death-like
appearance. In Act Four, scene one, Juliet visits the Friar. Juliet makes it clear that
she is willing to stab herself right there to avoid marrying Paris. The Friar observes
that if she is willing to kill herself, she should also have the
strength and willingness to take a potion to make her look dead, and wait to be
"rescued" by Romeo.
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FRIAR:
…If,
rather than to marry County Paris,
Thou hast the strength
of will to slay thyself,
Then is it likely thou wilt
undertake
A thing like death to chide away this
shame,
That cop’st with death himself to scape from
it;
And, if thou dar'st, I'll give thee
remedy (IV.i.72-77)
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lay some blame at Prince Escalus' door. For all the time there has been a feud going on,
Escalus has acted like the threatening parent that says, "If you don't stop it, I'm
going to…." over and over. After a while, no one listens; but in Act One, he threatens
the families with death.
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PRINCE:
If
ever you disturb our streets again,
Your lives shall pay
the forfeit of the peace.
(I.i.92-93)
When Escalus
finally takes a stand, he ends up banishing Romeo because he had
killed Tybalt, who had killed the Prince's cousin, Mercutio. However, in banishment,
Romeo and Juliet are separated, and a breakdown in communication between Friar Lawrence
and Romeo causes the newlyweds to take their
lives.
Personally, I blame Capulet as well. At the
beginning, he tells Paris to wait two years to court Juliet. Even then, he says that
Juliet will have the last word in whether there will be a
marriage.
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CAP:
But
woo her, gentle Paris, get her heart;
My will to her
consent is but a part.
An she agree, within her scope of
choice
Lies my consent and fair according voice.
(I.ii.16-19)
By the end of
Act Three, Capulet had completely changed his mind and promised Juliet's hand to
Paris.
CAP:
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Thursday let it be— a Thursday, tell
her
She shall be married to this noble earl.
(III.iv.21-22)
When Juliet
refuses, Capulet's rage descends on his daughter and he threatens first to drag her to
the church; next he threatens to throw her out into the streets. In light of this,
Juliet turns to Friar Lawrence for help. (Remember, too, she is already married, and
cannot marry Paris also.)